Is it Love??? How do you know??? How do you know when to separate attachment from love? Do you love that person because you need them or do you need them because you love them??? That is the question and deserves a clear answer. Through my observation it has come to my awareness that the love we seek from others is really the love we are blinded to find within ourselves. As human beings we are conditioned to explore outside our means for what can bring us happiness; ranging from story book fairytales, the oh so famous perfect vampire love/boyfriend, media, tabloids, the rising popularity of reality t.v., (which at times make me want to vomit over how ridiculous people can be.) So the whole point of this post is what love really comes down to, and it's YOU. Answer me this: When we begin to feel lonely in our relationship, unloved and starving for attention, we have our own little way of making it known to our significant other. In which they come back shocked believing to have done everything they could possibly do to make us happy and at one point are stuck with saying "I just don't know what I can do to make you happy anymore." Yeah, I know those words feel all to familiar. Ok, here's the question that I want your answer to... Is it really your significant other not showing you attention, not making you happy, not loving you? Or could it possibly be, You? Seriously think about this question before you answer because I know you want to point the finger. You see the truth is this... It just might be that your partner is slacking on the affection side however the bigger picture is that they are just a mirror image of You, where in turn, You are failing to show affection to yourself. This, my friend, is not so healthy. Chances are this maybe an all to familiar cycle for you, feeling unloved at times, that is. Well stop it!! Stop the cycle! Learn to love yourself, explore who you truley are. I dare you to look at your own reflection and ask yourself if you really love You. If that person you see in the mirror is genuinely happy and fulfilled within do to your own doings, well than by all means dump that bastard assmunch and move to the next best thing!! But just don't forget that reflection in the mirror along the way because they need love too. Remember you are beautiful, life is precious, and you deserve nothing but the best. :)
Peace&Reflection,
Amber Nicole